Graduating from high school is a major milestone—and for students heading off to college, it marks the beginning of one of the most exciting and transformative chapters of their lives. For families, it’s a time to celebrate accomplishments, support the transition, and soak in the last few months before everything changes. So, how can you make this summer special, and what are the best ways to prepare your graduate for the road ahead?

Celebration Ideas That Matter

A Party? – I remember my son’s reaction to the idea of a graduation party… “did you really think I wasn’t going to graduate? I don’t need or want a party.” However, some students really like the attention, and if you made a celebration for the older siblings, you may feel obligated.

Create a Memory Book: Gather notes, photos, and advice from loved ones—teachers, family, mentors, and friends. A scrapbook or digital slideshow of memories and well wishes can be a keepsake they’ll treasure.

Plan a “Last Hurrah” Trip: This doesn’t have to be extravagant—a weekend camping trip, beach day, or even a city excursion with close family or friends gives your graduate a break from prep stress and a chance to connect before parting ways.

Practical and Appreciated Gift Ideas

College-bound students are stepping into a world where practical items become precious. Here are gift ideas that combine thoughtfulness with real-world usefulness:

Portable Tech

-Noise-canceling headphones

– A reliable power bank

– A Bluetooth speaker

– A sturdy laptop backpack
These help students stay focused, relaxed, and connected.

Gift Cards with Purpose – Think Amazon, Target, DoorDash, local grocery stores near campus, or even public transportation cards. These come in handy for tight budgets and unexpected expenses.

Cash or a College Fund Contribution – It’s not flashy, but a financial boost—whether for textbooks, emergencies, or weekend getaways—goes a long way.

Books That Prepare or Inspire – Titles like The Naked Roommate (a humorous college survival guide), Atomic Habits (for building routines), or Grit (on perseverance) can be both helpful and motivational.

For Parents: Embracing the Final Summer

As your teen prepares to take their next steps, it’s natural to feel a mix of pride, sadness, and anxiety. Here are a few tips for making the most of this meaningful summer:

• Have the “Life Skills” Talks: Budgeting, laundry, roommate dynamics, self-care, taking responsibility in relationships, accountability — if they haven’t learned it yet, now’s the time.

• Balance Freedom with Togetherness: Your grad will want time with friends, but also prioritize family dinners, traditions, or weekly activities to create memories together.

• Get the Logistics Handled Early: Immunizations, insurance, student loans, packing lists, and housing details—tackle these early so August isn’t a scramble.

• Let Them Lead: Empower your teen to take the reins in preparing for college. This builds confidence and reminds them (and you) that they’re ready.

• Talk About Change—Openly: Acknowledge the emotional shift. Remind them it’s okay to be nervous and excited at once. Share your own first steps into adulthood to make the transition feel more normal.

Final Thoughts

The summer before college is a unique season, filled with excitement, change, and reflection. It’s a time to equip your graduate with what they need, celebrate who they’ve become, and cherish the time you have left at home together. Whether it’s a thoughtful gift, a heart-to-heart talk, or one last family road trip, the gestures you make now will stay with them long after the dorm is unpacked.

Bierer is an independent college adviser based in Charlotte. Send questions to: lee@bierercollegeconsulting.com; www.bierercollegeconsulting.com